Greetings from the Junction
The Treasure of Age
A lot of time is spent thinking about when we were young. Songs are written about it. Poems lament the passing of time. Novels pose the drama of lost youth and passion. As if we could stop the clocks. Keep the prime of our lives. Even in our mind’s eye, we feel young. Then a look in the mirror first thing in the morning is a reminder of oh, yes, age has taken hold!
I remember interviewing three old friends, all of whom happened to still be alive and celebrating their 97th birthdays together. All said – and this is what I’ll never forget – all said that they still felt like they were 18 yrs. old! I thought it was only me. It never goes away. Yearnings were the same, only the body has waned. Then, they laughed hard and loud together, eyes twinkling.
The point is, age is a treasure. In a different way than youth is a treasure. The experience that comes with age embellishes life in ways that a 25 yr. old can’t begin to imagine because they just haven’t lived long enough yet. Experience calms the nerves. It sets in motion a relaxed being. It homes in on what really matters. At some point, things get laser sharp and it’s easy to say no to the things that clutter up your life, that aren’t as urgent as they seemed when we were young, full of it, and didn’t know any better.
Age is freeing. There’s nothing to lose by telling the people you really care about, that you care; that you love them. Time allows the burying of grievances. It allows the making of amends. A mellowed maturity and grace comes out of it. And fun. And laughter. And quiet. And perhaps, peace.
The treasure is there’s just no more time to waste. This is it! This is no dress rehearsal, no final take, so anything you want to do, you do. The people you want to spend time with, you do. Those you don’t want to, you don’t.
Age also brings more humor, less seriousness to life. After a lifetime of gaining experiences, it’s easy to cut through chaff. Easier to cipher a given situation, and roll with the decisions you make. Often, after accumulating a lifetime of material possession, living in the same house, raising children, we sell and give most all of it away and embark on new adventures. We meet new people, move to new places, form entirely new friendships.
Being young is fun, but we’re still learning and growing, and often have to juggle the stress of living a life that is being pushed in many directions. Being old comes with its own advantages, its own fun, minus crazy directions. We’ve lived some tragedies. We think beyond ourselves.
Historically, the elders of a community are valued for their wisdom. Across the world, cultures revere their old people. They offer great consideration, and considered experience. They offer patience. They remember history and provide the sense of place that steadies the rudder of time, and that continually connects each and every one of us to make a strong, resilient community. Only that can come with time.
– Suzanne M. AuClair
Greetings from the Junction
’Tis the gift to be simple, ’tis the gift to be free
’Tis the gift to come down where we ought to be
And when we find ourselves in the place just right,
’Twill be in the valley of love and delight.
When true simplicity is gained,
To bow and to bend we shan’t be ashamed,
To turn, turn, will be our delight,
’Til by turning, turning we come ’round right.
Joseph Brackett, 1848
Simple Gifts was the idea for our opening of the season, held on this first day of summer, where some 73 people spilled out onto the lawn for the dedication of the new gazebo next to the flowering gardens of the Eveleth-Crafts-Sheridan Historical House. The gazebo was built by Eagle Scout Thomas Watt and named for retired Director Candy Canders Russell, who also happens to be a wonderful gardener. Also, without the financial contribution of Jock Moore and Cathy Sweetser, our long time members (a past trustee) and benefactors, it would not have been possible for us to realize Thomas Watt’s project, which, in turn, provided a great addition to the Historical House, which, in turn, made a fine gift to our community that will be well used.
With members, family, friends and acquaintances all gathered in one place, it seemed only right that we celebrate this new season in the idea of Simple Gifts. For it is the simple gifts, as came about in the building of the gazebo that, in the end, have the most meaning. It’s the simple gifts that, like the song says, by turning, turning, we come ’round right.
This song was written in 1848 by Maine native Joseph Brackett. Mr. Brackett was a Quaker elder in Gorham and lifelong resident of Maine. Within local circles, his composition may have been especially known for its Christian meaning. But in 1944, it became an international success when American composer Aaron Copland threaded the melody into Appalachian Spring. Imagine how eloquent these words were near the end of the ravage of World War II. “Turning” is also a reference in dance, where, if the steps are followed correctly, each of the dancers end up where they ought to be; they “come ’round right.”
As stewards of Moosehead’s heritage, a lot of the time here at the historical society is spent thinking about the past. We hold our collective regional history. But the past, and all that transpires through time, rolls ever forward, forward, forward, until, at last, we find ourselves squarely bumped into the present. As happened on the lawn this first day of summer. All of us were gathered there for a reason. In that moment of time, it is There we were. In present time. That would soon become new history. All of us brought something of ourselves, of our own individual pasts, and of our sense of community, to the lawn that day. There was nothing complicated about it. Just a Simple Gift. For many reasons, we found ourselves “in the place just right.”
All that has transpired in each of our pasts, and together as neighbors and community, stops in the here and now, for just a moment, before rolling ever onward again. Another World War II-era poet, T.S. Eliot, put it this way, “What might have been and what has been, point to one end, which is always present.” Or, in this way, in our past is our beginning.
~ Suzanne AuClair
Greetings from the Junction
Did your parents ever look at you as a kid and say, “Where on earth did you come from?” Did the neighbors think you came from the ‘milkman’? Did you look the spitting image of your great-grandfather on your mother’s side rather than either of your parents? Is there a “black sheep” among the sibs, complete with different physical traits and mannerisms?
As we go about researching family ties, sometimes we see remarkable likenesses — skipped a generation, or two. Often you hear it called a “throwback,” as in, “Well, baby Tootie’s eyes look just like my great uncle Vernon’s!” This sometimes helps in identifying people in multiple generations of the same family in old photos that aren’t labeled.
Or, a throwback could have to do with a person or thing having the characteristics of another time or era, as in, “My, doesn’t he speak like an old Scot?” Or, “She dresses like she’s straight out of the ’60s.”
Another name for it is Atavism, derived in French from the Latin atavus meaning “ancestor.” If you look it up in the dictionary (or Google it), it says atavism refers to instances when an organism possesses traits closer to a more remote ancestor rather than its own parent. Maybe this is nature’s way of maintaining a robust gene pool, with uncountable variations that keep us all healthy, and, well, guessing and surprised.
I remember as a little girl listening to my relatives, who for many generations have lived in the same place, between Wytopitlock and Springfield. Until very recently, this area was pretty well insulated from change. People didn’t move out. People didn’t move in. In countenance, these members of my family hadn’t changed much from that of their ancestors who had settled from across the great sea. The lilt of the Scottish-English throwback was strong, and to me, beautiful. The rhythms of the spoken words dance up and they dance down. Even some of the words hadn’t changed, just used out of habit, but very particular to that region of Maine. I remember my grandfather telling me he had to pick up his ‘purse’ instead of his ‘wallet’ before we walked down to McCafferty’s Store. I always thought ladies carried purses. It looked like a man’s wallet, yet he called it a purse. But a long time ago in England, men carried pouches, or purses. If you look it up, it’s from the Middle English (1100-1500), via Middle Latin meaning bursa, a small bag or pouch for carrying money. Okay, Grampie! All I can think of is the little pouches of hide with a drawstring that some hunters still carry around.
This winter I was assembly pictures of family and came across one that startled me. It was a picture of my aunt on my father’s side. It was her high school graduation picture, so she was 18 yrs. old. In my graduation picture, I look exactly like her. At exactly the same age, we had exactly the same countenance. The set of our eyes, mouth, nose, and chin are like carbon copies. The look in our eyes is exactly alike. It’s unnerving. Our physical traits were not only the same, but it’s as if we are thinking exactly the same thing, in the moment that the camera clicked. Only we are of different times and places. Talk about throwback. Who do you take after?
— Suzanne AuClair
Greetings from the Junction
I never make New Year’s resolutions. They lose hold faster than a New York minute. But, as one year turns into the next, I can’t help but reflect on the outgoing one and catch the promise of the new one. After all, what is there to a brand new year, except the glow of promise? Usually, the promise has something to do with what will catch my imagination, and keep me burning on all four cylinders in the coming months.
Sometimes, what fuels my imagination is a certain photograph that passes across my desk. The photo might have nothing to do with anything I’m working on. I might be looking in our archives for something to put with an exhibit, then stumble across a picture that I can’t get out of my head. I have to use it! I have to enjoy it! I want it in front of me, front and center!
Who’s in the picture? Where are they? What kind of expression is on their face? What year is it? What are they doing? What makes me want to look at that particular picture? What endears me to it? What drives me to want to pull out files and do more research about it, then bring it to you, in the unveiling of a good story about our Moosehead heritage?
That happened last year with an unusual picture of Doc Pritham. We had nothing new on the books for Doc. Then, I ran across this rare, candid photo of a young Doc, sitting on horseback in the middle of the winter, goggles on his face, a driver’s cap on his head. What a world! In that instance, Doc Pritham reached through the hands of time and came calling on me. I couldn’t stop thinking about him. He was not to be ignored. He became my muse. In the end, he was the one ~ young and vibrant and full of Moosehead moxie ~ to invite our members, friends, and neighbors back into the Crafts house, in the soiree we held in Sept. Only he would do. Doc Pritham was our Master of Ceremony.
Another picture that caught my imagination was a candid one of Julia Crafts Sheridan, our benefactor. Again, we had nothing on schedule for her. But the photograph led to a two-page spread in the July 2017 newsletter about the Crafts, both of her father and business partner, Arthur, and of Julia’s long-lasting provenance in the Moosehead region. This photograph is, again, of a younger Julia, unposed, self-possessed, with a finger pressed up against the curve of an ever-so-slight smile, a mischievous twinkle in her eye. Not always how many remember her. But, still, very telling about her.
This month I’ve come across a picture that captures me. This one is of George Cripps. I didn’t know anything about him. The picture just grabs my attention. Turns out he is the maternal grandfather of Frances Bigney, a prominent historical family of the Moosehead region. He was born in 1840, died in 1916. He was a guide at the Kineo Hotel. See the photograph and story on page 5.
In this moment of time, George is my muse. The picture excites me. It draws me in. It inspires me. In some way, it sets me free. Maybe it’s the hand on his hip, his back turned away from the camera, the side look over his shoulder. Maybe it’s his being out on the water in a simple boat, his worn boot propped on the gunnel, a man in his element. Maybe it’s the knife in its sheath, hanging off his belt.
For whatever reasons ~ and the reasons aren’t important ~ he captures my imagination. That’s the important part. There’s a promise in the air.
~ Suzanne AuClair